The Life Advice I Needed Today (And Maybe You Too)

For weeks, I’ve been struggling with a personal decision.

I’ve come up with scenarios, built a decision tree, and used AI to analyze my options. It’s made me so anxious, it’s often the first thing I think of when I wake up.

Yesterday, wanting a different perspective, I called my best friend to ask him what he would do in my shoes.

Among other things, he told me, “you can’t think like an engineer all the time.” He was right! I don’t want to screw this up, and I’ve approached it like a coder. But life is mostly about daring and taking risks.

“Live without regrets,” he said near the end of our call. That’s what I needed to hear because I was about to give up.

That’s my best friend’s advice. You’ll find mine in 10 Surprisingly Simple Ideas That Changed My Life And Could Change Yours Too.

The One Change Transforming My Most Recent and Future Books

I don’t want to write the same book twice.

I challenge myself to make every book different. So far, I’ve experimented with formats: a choose-your-own-adventure, a 10-point list, and a one-idea-per-chapter book.

For my latest books, 10 Surprisingly Simple Ideas That Changed My Life and Street-Smart Coding Manifesto, I’ve skipped the prologue and the introduction.

From Write Useful Books, I learned to start non-fiction at Chapter 1. It’s like dropping viewers into the TV show drama instead of starting with a director’s commentary.

Start with blood, drama, or an engaging story.

Don’t bore readers or waste their time. Give them something and give it fast.

If you want to see this idea in action, you’ll find my books here. Books on coding and personal growth that respect your time.

I'm Launching Street-Smart Coding Manifesto (A Case Against Syntax Obsession)

Street-Smart Coding Manifesto cover
Street-Smart Coding Manifesto

Crafting clean code alone won’t save you or make you stand out. That’s not the real edge.

Why this book?

When I started, I thought my only job was writing code.

I obsessed over syntax and lines of code. I ignored meetings, calls, and emails. I only wanted to code, code, and code. But I was wrong.

After trial and error, and even getting fired, I realized: Code alone won’t save you. It won’t make you stand out either. It’s always something beyond symbols: The skills outside the IDE.

That realization inspired my next book: Street-Smart Coding Manifesto.

It’s for junior and intermediate coders—and my younger self—who want to create impact beyond code.

Scrolling through the first pages of Street-Smart Coding Manifesto
Preview of the first ~10 pages

What’s inside?

It’s a short guide, you can finish over coffee, to the mindset shifts and skills that create real impact.

It includes 17 lessons to help you become a street-smart coder:

  • A coder invited to meetings for their opinion.
  • A coder managers trust first for new projects.
  • A coder who creates real impact beyond syntax.

Get your copy of Street-Smart Coding Manifesto here and master the skills that will set you apart, giving you confidence and impact beyond code.


PS: Also available on Kindle and paperback

Re: Make Your Mentors Ageless (I Don't Like The Word Mentor, But Learn From Anyone)

Nik wrote in Make Your Mentors Ageless:

Make your mentors ageless, and, at minimum, you’ll gain one awesome new trait: the humility to learn from anyone, no matter their relative position to you in this life.

I don’t like the word “mentor.”

It scares people away. Someone you want as mentor is probably too busy for that role. Don’t ask anyone to be your mentor.

I’ve never had official mentors, people holding the title. But mentors are everywhere.

Reading one of James Altucher’s books I learn, we should believe were sent to this planet to learn from anything and everyone.

As expected most of my not-mentors and my heroes are older than me.

The other day, an 80-year-old lady selling pop corn taught me a lesson on work. But I’ve also learned from a 4-year-old about productivity and from a 6-year old about money.

Don’t be stubborn to think you have nothing to learn. Lessons and mentors are everywhere. Books are the best mentors.

If you’re looking for a life mentor, check out 10 Surprisingly Simple Ideas That Changed My Life And Could Change Yours Too.

re: You're Born to F*cking Create (A Simple Cure for Burnout)

Almost everybody In my first AMA asked the same thing: What helped you overcome burnout?

The answer is simple: Bring back a sense of joy to your life.

Tim Denning wrote about it in You’re born to f*cking create:

If you feel stuck, the easiest way I know how is to start writing publicly.

If you’ve got other creative goals, then do those. But make sure every day you are creating things and putting them out into the world to see what comes back.

Make creativity your #1 priority.

Burnout is disconnection.

To reconnect with yourself, go back to your hobbies or start new ones. For me, that was writing a daily post.

Writing 200 words gave me a reason to wake up every day. Writing about my career milestones felt like therapy.

Little by little, a hobby became serious. One post led to my first writing course. Then it led to a 100-post streak. Then to the idea of writing a book. Then to finally calling myself a writer. Then to my horizon goal: documenting my life in books.

Apart from daily healthy habits, writing saved me—by giving me a purpose. That’s why I keep doing it.

If you’re feeling disconnected or burned out, diversify your joy—and go back to your hobbies.

Writing is one of the ideas in 10 simple ideas that changed my life.