04 Aug 2025 #misc
When you’re a teenager, you get invitations to “sweet 16” or quinceañera parties.
When you’re in your 20s, you get wedding invitations. In your 30s, baby shower invitations.
This week, my best friend invited me to her first baby shower.
That made me think of other types of “shower” celebrations we as adults could host:
#1. A business shower: Guests support your new business by buying your product, leaving a 5-star review, and maybe even donating to cover some business expenses. Maybe a little something to cover your accountant’s fee. Taxes don’t file themselves.
#2. A breakup shower: Guests show up with breakup survival kits: ice cream, wine, a sad playlist, and romantic movies. Or whatever people eat and drink to get over a breakup. Maybe a guest can introduce you to someone or arrange a blind date for you.
#3. A new apartment shower: If you leave your parents’ nest or just get married, you can host a new apartment shower. Guests bring utensils and cleaning supplies to fill your empty new apartment.
#4. A divorce shower: This shower is for turning “that page.” Your guests help you throw away stuff from your past life or simply buy anything that reminds you of your ex.
#5. A college shower: About to start college? Invite your family and friends to help you with… Wondering what college students need these days? Probably notebooks, a laptop and a ChatGPT subscription. And maybe ask for some extra money to pay for the college tuition.
#6. A first job shower: Got your first job? Congrats! Host a first job shower. Guests give you a jacket and tie, help you with a professional headshot to update your LinkedIn account, and buy you a Netflix subscription so you can unplug after a busy day.
#7. A layoff shower: Got laid off? Sorry to hear that. You’re not alone. Host a layoff shower: guests help revamp your CV, write LinkedIn recommendations, or maybe offer a referral. Now that I think about it, this would be like a breakup shower. These days I think pretty much everybody in tech would run this one. Wait if I got laid off more than one year ago, can I still host one? Asking for my LinkedIn account.
03 Aug 2025 #misc
Recently, I learned about the 10,000 experiment rule.
I found it on Skip The Line by James Altucher. That is, instead of aiming for 10,000 hours to mastery, run quick, cheap, and easy-to-do experiments.
Yesterday, as part of my daily routine of writing 10 bad ideas a day, I thought about experiments I could run this month. So here are 7 of them.
#1. Change my LinkedIn bio to include “Ghostwriter.” Often the only thing we need to start with a new offer or service is changing our headline and email signature. I’m changing my LinkedIn headline and bio to start my LinkedIn ghostwriting gig.
#2. Upload my coding courses to my Gumroad store. I offer three C# coding courses on Udemy. The thing is, Udemy keeps students contacts and takes a big cut.
Instead of growing Udemy’s business, I’m hosting my coding courses on my Gumroad store too. I control the course prices and have direct access to my students.
#3. Change all prices on my Gumroad store to end on 99. There’s a lot of psychology research behind pricing. Long story short, products with prices that end in 99 sell more. Let’s see if that’s true.
#4. Instead of giving away some ebooks, charge $1. Or $0.99 to follow #3. I’ve read that $0.99 is the new free for books, given that “free” readers rarely convert to paying ones.
#5. Reformat my free ebooks and point to my paid ones. I’ll add a “From the same author” section to each book.
#6. Increase the suggested prices of all my free products. I offer free books on Gumroad, with pay-what-you-want pricing. I only set a suggested price. I’m increasing that price from $5 to $7. Maybe I can subconsciously influence my visitors to leave a higher tip. Muahaha!
#7. Offer all my C# coding courses on a “C# Fundamentals Bundle.” After following #2 and #3, I’m bundling my C# courses together and offering it for $12.99 or something. If I sell one or two bundles, that’s a win!
Let’s see which ones take off. Either way, I’ll learn something… and keep my daily streak alive.
02 Aug 2025 #career
Oi, galera! You don’t need to overwork to stand out in your team.
Paulo Cardoso reacted to my post with 10 tips to stand out at work, sharing his thoughts on his YouTube channel. Well, actually, he reacted to the Medium version.
He translated and expanded on all 10 points. He added more context to each point. All in Portuguese.
Check out his full breakdown below.
01 Aug 2025 #mondaylinks
Hey there.
Here are 4 links I thought were worth sharing this week:
#1. I had ~5 meetings to decide what to do on each sprint. And I wasn’t doing any rocket science, just boring enterprise software. Meetings are the #1 distraction and a necessary evil. Here’s how to create the ultimate meeting culture (8min).
#2. If you’re a new manager or you want to become one, here’s a down-to-earth guide for new managers (7min). I really liked the coach analogy.
#3. Here’s another way how AI is “killing” junior coders (4min) in the open source world.
#4. If you’ve ever wondered if you’re a good programmer, read this post/reflection. It helps with the impostor syndrome.
And in case you missed it, I wrote on my blog about the business lesson I learned buying a new mattress (2min) and 10 career actions you will never regret (2min).
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See you next time,
Cesar
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31 Jul 2025 #career
My corporate journey didn’t come with an instruction manual.
I landed my first job because that’s what everyone does and what I was supposed to do. I joined the corporate world without any goal, other than “gain experience.” Which I did it.
But I was fired from my first job, got bored from my second, and got laid off from my last one. No survival kit or instruction manual. Only trial and error.
If I could start all over again, here are 10 actions I will never regret doing:
- Change jobs often
- Learn new skills constantly
- Set a career goal or intention
- Practice hobbies outside work
- Build a strong online presence earlier
- Invest in coaching, mentoring, and education
- Learn a second or third language
- Build multiple income sources
- Grow a professional network
- Have an emergency fund
And more importantly, figure out my own career and plan life instead of accepting the default path. That’s a lesson that took me 10 years to learn.