The Unexpected Lesson That Could Save Your Marriage or Workplace
10 Sep 2026 #miscI was looking to know how the mind and emotions work.
But I found the best lesson for marriages and relationships.
It’s the XYZ approach from Emotional Intelligence by Daniel Goleman:
When sharing about an uncomfortable or annoying situation, instead of attacking the spouse, point out the situation. And say something like, When you did X, it made me feel Y. I would have preferred Z.
Always make it about the situation, not the person. And if it works for marriages, it works at the workplace too.